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Lancaster Children’s Ministry

by Ken Shirk and Reuben Stoltzfus

“But Jesus said, ‘Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me:
for of such is the kingdom of heaven.’”
(Matthew 19:14)
“Behold a sower went forth to sow.” (Matthew 13:3b)

Lancaster Children’s Ministry was born in 1995 out of the desire and vision of one young man in ministry on the streets of Lancaster. As he was going door-to-door and porch-to-porch, he started reaching out to the children and taking them with him as he ministered. He gradually started giving some of his time in the evening to a lesson for those children, and then as others joined him, they began spending entire evenings with the children. The desire to “forbid them not” grew, and a separate ministry was formed from the Street Ministry. From then to now there has been much change and learning, but the desire to sow the seed in young hearts remains the same.
This ministry is not only for the children but also for the young people from our churches. To see the enthusiasm and commitment of the youth every Tuesday evening is encouraging and makes the responsibility of overseeing them a real pleasure. Our goals for the ministry are four-fold:

  1. To get the Word of God into the minds and hearts of young children so that it will be a guiding influence the rest of their lives. We have heard many testimonies of those who heard the Word of God as a young child either through Sunday School, a ministry such as this, or in the home. That teaching followed them even though they were not walking with God, and was an influence to bring them to Christ as an adult.
  2. To build long-term relationships with the children so that we can be an influence in their lives even through the troubled teen years.
  3. To be able to get into the homes and reach the parents and family through our love and interest in their children. God has blessed us with many good relationships, and we rejoice to see those doors open.
  4. To give our young people opportunity to get addicted to the work of God; to learn to pray, serve, study, and teach the Word of God. It also gives opportunity for good healthy relationships between the young people.

We have six different routes or groups of teachers with five to eight teachers on a route. Many of the routes split into two or three different classes. An adult or mature youth is given responsibility to oversee each route. It is rewarding to watch that young man grow in maturity as he leads out and gives direction in the class. Many of the teachers put a lot of time into building relationships with their students by visiting them or having them out for the weekend.

A Tuesday evening begins with teachers arriving alone, by twos, or by the carload at one of two church buildings rented for the evening. While they wait for the latecomers, they have a good time visiting together. When everyone from a route has arrived, that group goes to a classroom for a time of sharing and prayer for the evening’s work, preparing their hearts, and being joined together in unity. As they leave to pick up the children, they are filled with the anticipation of seeing their children and giving them a hug. Many of the children are from broken homes. Not having a father to relate to, they are longing for love.

When the class time is over, snack finished, and the children taken home, the route will again meet in the classroom to share about the evening. They may be rejoicing over the response of the children to the lesson, or they may be seeking answers for that child who repeatedly interrupted class. Some evenings the children seem to have no interest in what they should. It is easy to ask, “What are we doing here?” Then we are reminded that God loves them more than we ever can or will. Though many are in this world because of sin in their parents’ lives, they are not an accident to God, and He has a divine purpose for them being here. Maybe we can be the one to receive a blessing by planting that seed that will grow and bring glory to God.

Following are some testimonies from teachers:

Being involved with the children’s ministry has shown me the many lost and hurting young souls in Lancaster who are simply crying out for love and acceptance. Many of the children’s eyes silently plead for love and affirmation in their unstable lives.

At the end of class on a Tuesday evening we always hold hands to pray together as a route. When their slight hand is slipped into mine, I often think of this writing entitled “Small Hands”:

When a boy or girl thrusts their small hand in yours, it may be smeared with chocolate ice cream, or grimy from petting a dog, and there may be a wart under the right thumb and a bandage on the little finger. But the most important thing about these hands is that they are the hands of the future. These are the hands that some day may reverently hold a Bible or angrily hold a gun. They may play the church piano or spin a gambling wheel. They may gently dress a leper’s wounds or tremble wretchedly, uncontrolled by an alcoholic mind. But right now that hand is in yours. It asks for help and guidance. It represents a full-fledged personality to be respected as a separate individual whose day-by-day growth into mature Christian adulthood is your responsibility.

Eugena Martin, Red Route

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I am grateful for what God is doing in my life through LCM. Being a route captain has required me to seek God for answers. “Why aren’t we seeing much fruit for our labors? How does God want us to minister in Lancaster City? Are the young people in my route clear before God and each other? Are my hands clean and is my heart pure?” The questions go on. I can testify that being in Lancaster has been a way for God to teach me in leadership, ministry, and dependence on Him. It has also shown me more clearly that in me, that is in my flesh, dwells no good thing. I am thankful for what God has done with me and with us, but I am even more thankful for what God will yet do with the children and families of Lancaster City. May God’s will be done in earth as it is in heaven. A little over a half year ago a young man from another ministry in Lancaster shared with us a vision of what will happen when the King of Glory comes to Lancaster and fights for us. I believe it will happen. I just pray that God would allow me to witness it. My hope is that I would be humble and broken enough that God would allow me to be part of His army. May glory, honor, majesty, dominion, and power be unto Jesus Christ now and forever. Amen.

Merle Weaver, Blue Route

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”Arise, shine; for thy light is come, and the glory of the Lord is risen upon thee” (Isaiah 60:1). This verse fits so well with my testimony. As I ponder and look back over the years of my involvement with LCM, I can’t help but remember my younger years of struggling and seeing the difference that it made in just getting involved in the lives of others. From feeling like I didn’t fit in, that I needed to “arrive” before God could ever use me, I marvel at how God has helped me through that time and how far He has taken me on since then. Looking back, I realize that LCM played a big part in my growth. I am challenged and humbled as I think of the awesome responsibility and impact we can have in the lives of the children. I help with the older class of young people, which can be a real challenge, but I love it. This past Tuesday as I was listening to one of the mothers (who is a sincere Christian) share about her struggles in guiding her youth, warning and trying to protect them from the evils around them, I was left with a deeper burden for the young people in our society. Very few have parents like that. Who will show them the only true way? Who will speak out against the moral sins? Who will stop them from going down the same path that their parents are on? Who will take the time that it takes to build relationships, teach them, and help them make right choices? Who will stand in the gap?

I can still see the faces of the youth as I taught this past Tuesday on the two different paths of Light and Darkness (God and Satan). True, they may appear indifferent and hard at times, but I know that deep down in, each one of them is searching for answers. For most of them, we are their only Bible, and Tuesday night is the only church they go to! May we all rise to the challenge that is so clearly given to us. “Behold, I am the Lord, the God of all flesh: is there any thing too hard for me?” (Jer. 32:27).

Janelle Zimmerman, Green Route

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I have learned much in the 1½ years I have been going to children’s ministry. I have found a joy in pouring out my time, energy, and money for the little children in Lancaster. I have seen how they live. There are many who are hurting, longing for someone to encourage them and say, “Jesus loves you; you can do it.” It has also given me a burden and love for other cultures and people.

The children in my class are five to eight years old. I have grown to love and appreciate them very much, and see potential in them. I’m trusting God to make them children with purpose, hope, and a bright future. I have confidence that their lives are changed every Tuesday.

Before every lesson we have a time of prayer, and I ask them if they have prayer requests or if they want to pray. Imalay, a little eight-year-old girl, learned to pray in Jesus’ name. One day her mom was sick at home, and Imalay and her brother Aramis (who is also in my class) put their hands on their mom and said, “Mom, we’ll pray for you. Jesus will heal you.” Later, on visitation, their mom told me this story. She told how she can’t even pray and was amazed when her children prayed for her. As a result of their prayer, the parents of these children now go to church. They are happy to see their children changing in their home. One time this mom was discouraged when the children came home from church, and the children began singing songs about Jesus. Now she has them practice church songs and sing for her. Imalay grabs the truth and obeys it as much as she knows how. Just last week she told me, “Marcus, in the evening I go to my room and read my Bible. I don’t watch TV.” I was amazed! I didn’t tell her to do this. She has also memorized I John 1 with a little help, and at home they practice with their parents. This makes them feel good because they have accomplished something.

One day last summer as I went into Lancaster, I began to cry as I realized: “Here I am, going to Lancaster again. Why? Why am I wasting my time and money?” I stopped at Wal-Mart to buy a teddy bear and picture frame for Veronica, an eight-year-old girl from a poor family. She had broken her hand at school as she was trying to stop a big boy from hurting a little boy. “Hurt me instead,” she said. I think it was a result of a lesson that was taught earlier. I was touched as she told me why her hand was wrapped, so I decided to buy her something. As I came to her house, her mom was sitting on the porch. She was so blessed to see someone cares, and blessed to see how much her children have changed.

Some of the rewards of serving Jesus in this way have been sensing God blessing in a wonderful way after serving Him, seeing the parents’ confidence in us, and having their blessing. Sometimes it is just the simple reward of parents opening the door before we are at the house, and sensing they are thankful. It is also a blessing to watch the little children when we pick them up on Tuesday. They are waiting with joy and think all week about Tuesday church. Their parents always tell us, “The children can’t wait until Tuesday!” And those little children tell their parents everything, including the lessons they learn (and about us). They talk in school and all over the streets about the things they’ve learned. They also write us notes and cards saying: “I love God, I love church, and I love the way you teach. I love you.” What a blessing to see their eyes sparkle with eagerness as they come and hear about Jesus!

In my class they are learning to sing, pray, and sit quietly during the lesson. They are learning to love their parents and to obey them. At snack time two of the ones who have behaved well during class time get to serve the others. We have a behavior chart that includes things such as attendance, helps to sing, kind to others, raises hand to talk, and more. These teach the children many lessons during church. Every two months the six children who have the most stickers get a reward. An example of a reward would be sledding or skating in the winter. These are opportunities to build relationships with them. We reward the good and discourage anything that points to sin. I love it so much. It is teaching me patience, kindness, self-control, etc. I am also learning to lead out with gentleness and with consideration of others. Praise God!

Marcus Waldner, Purple Route

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I am thankful for the opportunity that I have to work in Lancaster Children’s Ministry. Every Tuesday I look forward to seeing my little friends from the city: just to take an interest in their lives, hear their stories, play with them, and then, to be with them in class, watching their faces and listening as they try to grasp from the lesson truth that they have never heard before. But they don’t always sit and listen. Frequently they bring some ugly attitudes and almost wild behavior along. And sometimes they don’t even come. They might not feel like it, or they might have moved. It seems like moving is something that happens quite often among “my” children. It might be just down the street, or it might be to the next state. Just recently three of my little friends moved to New York. One week they were there, and the next week they were gone. It was almost hard to believe, but it made me realize how important it is to take every opportunity we get to share the truth with them, to tell them that God loves them and died for them, to give them hope for a better life. My desire and prayer is that I will take every opportunity I get to do that, to make a difference in their lives.

Melody Martin, Orange Route

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Many times we read in the Bible of God passing judgment on entire civilizations because of their sin. And yet, there was often a man of God, a prophet, who, though he spoke God’s judgment, was deeply burdened over the terrible state of his people. Our society today is not much different than the descriptions we find of these ancient civilizations. And in the midst of all the sin we see around us, there is a generation of children growing up who know no absolutes, no standards, and no God but self. I want to share several snapshots of experiences we have had with our children in an effort to give you a window into their lost, hurting souls.

Lancaster City

Statistics are from the 2000 census, taken from the following website:
http://lancasterpa.areaconnect.com/statistics.htm

Lancaster City has a population of approximately 56,000 people

Of those, almost 9,000 or a little more than 15% are 5 to 14 years old.

Lancaster has a large population of Spanish speaking Hispanic & Latino nationalities, as well as a mixture of African Americans and many other races.

Out of 12,100 families, only 7,000 have both father and mother in the home and they are married, but this number includes divorced and married to another person, and probably also common-law marriage that applies if the couple has been living together for I believe it is 8 years.

Another 4,000 have only a mother present, while the remaining families have either only father, or non-married couples.

The Overall Crime Index for Lancaster is higher than the national average, with 4 murders in 2001.

The influences of sin begin to manifest themselves even in the very young. When you see a two-year-old make vulgar hand signs at someone, when you watch a five-year-old walk past already dressing in a very sensual way, when you hear a nine-year-old use language that makes your ears burn, what does that do to you? I thought children were supposed to have an air of innocence about them! Where are they being exposed to things of this nature? Sadly, it is in their homes, in their school—everywhere. They are watching Mom and Dad and sometimes even their grandparents. They are building on the foundation that the generations before them have laid.

But what I think burdens our hearts even more is our teenagers. They have grown up in the midst of immorality, broken homes, and fighting. To them, it has become normal; it’s just how life is. Now they stand at the crossroads and must decide if this is the path of life on which they are going to walk. Some have already taken the first steps on the dangerous road to destruction and carry a load of sin that no young person should ever bear. Many can tell you of a relative or friend who has spent time behind bars. They can point out the place in their school parking lot where a fellow student was shot over a few dollars. They know where the gang fights take place and can point out a drug dealer without any problem. These are today’s teenagers.

They have told us many times that God’s ways are great for us, but they just don’t work in the city. And it’s no surprise they feel this way with all they see around them. There are no universal standards in their lives. Things are based simply on how you feel about it in their world. Just recently, one of our girls told me about a school assignment in which she was asked to give her opinion on a school for homosexuals. Where are the absolutes of right and wrong, truth and error, in this generation?

When you know a twelve-year-old who has tried to commit suicide, how do you reach out to her? How do you really get to her heart? When you lift up the standard of moral purity with all its beauty and blessing, and your young teenage friend looks at you with sad eyes and asks, “But what do you do if it’s already too late?”—how do you answer? Does your heart ache along with his? When you meet a very expectant mother on the street, and she tells you she’s only fourteen, does it grieve your heart? And later, when you see her pushing a stroller with her own baby in it, can you get your mind around the fact that in reality this girl is just starting high school and isn’t even old enough to drive? How would you react in these situations?

How thankful we are for the blood of Jesus that cleanses all sin! Not one is too big for Him! He is the only answer for us, for all these young people, for the world. It is His face we must continually seek, His image we must reflect, and His truth we must lift up. It is He alone who can pick up the broken pieces and ashes of a ruined life and make it into something beautiful. It is our dear Lord Jesus that we are constantly running to for wisdom and direction in reaching the hearts of our children. He is our hope, our example, our everything!

So, why do I share all of this? Maybe it will give some of you who read this a burden to pray for our young people. But more importantly, please know that you will find young people as I have described all across this nation. I’m sure some live right in your area. They are lost souls waiting for the light. This generation needs men and women of God who, like the prophets of old, will carry the burden of their own people on their hearts. Can you hear their cries?

Jennifer Brown, Purple Route

 

 

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