
The question is often
asked, “How can I best begin at
home to prepare for the life of the mission field?” Here
are a few practical suggestions:
Effort • It will not be easy. We must go out of our
way to acquire this preparedness. We are called to a strict
training for a hard fight which will not end till we hear
God’s ‘Well done.’
Difficulties • Let us
learn to choose the hardest things, to do what others
leave undone. We can begin in the
ordinary affairs of home life. The joy of hard climbing
and the glory of the impossible should not be mere phrases
but
experienced facts.
Helpfulness • Make opportunities each day to help
others, in inconspicuous ways, not grudgingly but joyfully,
though it may mean far less time for yourself. Be kind and
thoughtful. Be courteous and good mannered: ‘Love
is never rude, never selfish.’
Sleep • Do not waste time sitting up late talking.
King’s business talk is different; but what about
the late rising in the morning, the shortened Quiet Time,
due
to our letting the pleasant conversation of the night before
drive on?
Food • ‘I don’t like this.’ Well,
learn to like it, unless it actually does physical harm.
Be grateful for what God has given. If it is just a case
of likes and dislikes, learn to be able to eat things that
are not your choice–and enough to keep you fit and
strong, not a mere mouthful. The ability to eat unflinchingly
may mean much for friendship with peoples of another land
whose food is very different from ours.
Clothes • God wants
us to be tidy, and certainly not to be conspicuous through
slackness. But fashion should not
be our master even in the smallest things.
Spending Money • There are many unnecessary gadgets
and ornaments that it is very nice to possess, for which
we spend money without thinking. All our money is God’s
if we are His children. Rich and poor, we should think
and pray before we spend, and we should learn to do without.
Some, after indulgence in small ways, find it very hard
to
stop. The people among whom we are to live in the mission
field, for the most part never could buy such things or
their local equivalent. The unnecessary separates us from
those
we come to serve. Do not let us live like misers, but pray
before we spend.
Tidiness • Some people
seem to be born tidy; others think that they never can
be. Can we imagine the Lord Jesus
when He was on earth with His clothes untidy and all His
belongings lying about in disorder? It saves time and is
excellent training deliberately to study tidiness.
Comfort • Do not become too wedded to the armchair.
The comforts of the modern life may not be found abroad and
we must learn to be independent of them–to cut out
the things that make us soft. Physical discomfort for its
own sake need not be sought, but it must never cause us to
turn back. ‘Be careful of your body, but careless
of your life.’
Accuracy • —which
is a part of truth. Train the mind in accurate thinking
and the lips in accuracy of
speech. What of the stories we retell? Do we add to the
facts to make people more impressed or more amused? Truth
has no
place in most non-Christian lands, so when we speak of
the necessity of utter truth, our words and ways are
watched.
Truth • Let there be no pose. Many Orientals can read
us like a book and we cannot deceive them. According to God’s
scale of values we are certainly no better than they, so
why pretend to be so?
Pride • If you take
offence easily, do not come to the mission field thinking
that it does not matter. He humbled
Himself. He did it deliberately. So let us not care overmuch
for the praise or blame of men, even of other Christians.
To our Lord we live. If something is misunderstood, learn
to go directly to the one concerned. Be frank and humble
and straighten it out.
Speech • Don’t argue, but learn from God when
and what to speak…and realize the value of silence.
Never break confidence. Never fear to speak the truth, though
it lead to trouble. When God says ‘speak’,
deliver without fear or favor His whole message to individuals
or
in a meeting.
Humility • If we are wrong let us confess it. It will
be humiliating, but it will be the straight thing to do;
and no one ever loses standing in the eyes of those he seeks
to help by being honest. Be willing to learn from the experience
of others, experienced older people, inexperienced younger
ones, people of the country, anyone, if only we may do our
job more for Gods’ glory. The best way of doing things
in the homelands is very often not the best way abroad.
Popularity • It is dangerous, attracting people to
oneself. Influence is most often unconscious. God can use
the latter if we live near enough to Him, but the former
should never be sought. ‘He made Himself of no reputation.’
Adaptability • We must
learn to be adaptable, be willing to start from the beginning,
go to school again to learn
the language and the customs and the mind of the people
to whom we go. If we do not like having our careful plans
altered
and something quite different substituted, the sooner we
learn to be able to take this joyfully the better.
Patience • Much of this is needed for the study of
the language and ways of our new homeland. It is no use trying
to hurry the deliberate East. It is seldom any use to give
someone ‘a piece of our mind’. It is usually
not worth giving; and the heat of the tropics does not
encourage the spontaneous growth of patience. So it is
a lesson to
be learned, a gift to be asked from God who freely gives
all we need.
Temperament • Even amongst Christians, differences
of natural temperament often lead to friction and lack of
peace. You may find yourself in a mission station with one
other missionary whose tastes and interests and temperament
are the very reverse of yours. If you do not get on together,
God’s name is dishonored before those you hope to
win for Christ, for such a feeling of estrangement will
soon
be known to them. What have you in common? A love for the
Lord, a call to His service among those who know Him not.
PRAY. Pray frequently together. Pray for others. Worship
and adore your Lord together and the petty things that
might cause friction will be harmless to annoy.
Thoughts • Think the
best of others. Critical thoughts, unclean thoughts,
worrying thoughts, envious thoughts, thoughts
of self-pity that dwell upon difficulties ahead, or that
imagine offence or opposition in others, may be put into
our mind by the Evil One. Do not let them stay. If we give
place to them and begin to think them over, we shall be
led into sin, for even the thought of foolishness is
sin. The
Holy Companion is within us and knows our thoughts. Let
Him control them, and keep us too from the waste of Godtime
which
we call daydreaming.
Books • What do we read?
For refreshment, encouragement, uplifting help of all
kinds, there are many books. Let us
keep to these. Do we sit up half the night to finish something
interesting or exciting? Let us curb the lust to finish
and be disciplined in our reading as in other things.
Friendship • Every true
friendship should make us more accessible to others and
more understanding and helpful.
Exclusive friendships are unhealthy.
Marriage • Very many look forward to this as God’s
good gift. In the mission field there are some kinds of work
where married people can do more because they are married.
There are equally, a number of situations where single men
or single women are far better able to do the work that God
has appointed. So let us take nothing for granted and be
very, very sure of God’s guidance in this most solemn
of decisions.
Social Life • Do not
become a slave to social life, for it is a snare to many
on the mission field. Can you do
without the company of people of your own race? Do you
crave for the social amenities of the homelands? How
much time
is wasted in these things! Be independent of them and learn
to love the company of the people you have come to serve.
They soon understand, and to win their confidence is worth
all.
Sense Of Humor • Not only does this at times help
us in a difficult situation, but it lightens the necessary
stress of our daily work. How can one who does not understand
or appreciate the fun of life be the messenger of ‘the
Gospel of the Happy God’?
Joy • Be glad always. Praise God continually. When
you are ill or tired or tempted or at your wit’s
end, learn the habit of perpetual praise, for it prepares
a way
whereby God may show us His victory.
The Bible • If you do not believe it to be wholly
the Word of God, for Christ’s sake (I say reverently),
do not come to the mission field. Keen Hindus believe in
their holy books, Muslims in the Koran, and they have not
much respect for one who brings a Holy Book which is unreliable.
This
sums up the spirit of Phil. 2:5-8:
Because we children of Adam want to be great
—HE BECAME SMALL.
Because we are always seeking to climb higher
—HE STEPPED DOWN.
Because we will not stoop
—HE HUMBLED HIMSELF.
Because we want to rule
—HE CAME TO SERVE.
by Sister Eva of Friedenshort |
The Quiet Time • The source of strength for each day.
Get through to personal converse with the Lord. Let it not
become formal. It must be a conversation with Our Beloved
whom we love above all others. Do not merely ask Him for
things, but worship and praise Him. The devil will try to
let your work cut short God’s hour, but do not give
in if you want to be of any use to the Lord. It is not the
multitude of things accomplished, but the closeness of our
walk with Christ that determines whether our building will
be of gold, silver, precious stones… or of wood,
hay, and stubble.
Prayer • Pray often with your fellow-laborers –with
anyone who loves the Lord. Let all work be spiritual –medical,
educational, evangelistic, industrial. Don’t be caught
in the machinery of the works. Keep the spiritual uppermost
and the balance right. Many have lost their first spiritual
enthusiasm through pressure of work, so pray, pray, PRAY.
All Manner Of Service • Whosoever of you will be the
chiefest, shall be servant of all. For even the Son of Man
came not to be served but to serve and give. God looks for
a willingness and preparedness to be or do anything joyfully.
And He opens up His wealth to the men and women who are ready
to ‘do without’, to live disciplined lives,
and to whom Jesus Christ is truly all in all.
As poor, yet making many rich,
As having nothing, yet possessing all things…
For all things are yours, and ye are Christ’s.
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